Just asking if anybody has had experience of a short age gap between their children with their first being a very demanding child? A few months ago me and DH raised the issue that we would wait until DS is 3 years (9 months at the moment) before trying for another baby. However, we have now decided that we should start trying before DS is 18 months (just plucked out of thin air), and I'm starting to get broody already. I know there is no way of knowing exactly how DS will be at that age/ 2 years, as all children surely have tantrums, however if they are like the ones he has now, or even worse then I really will struggle being heavily pregnant or with a newborn. There are a few pros and cons we have gone through but the main one being if a new baby happens to have the same traits as DS, he hardly napped all day and screamed most of the time before 6 months, I really would end up as a puddle on the floor. I'm rather broody though and DH is making noises too about starting to try sooner.
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Want to try for second child with a high needs first child, 9 months.
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milkyjo · 28/09/2011 13:39
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