we will be ttc ing for #3 sometimes soon... just waiting for things to fall into places and then we will be ready to go!!! how old are your two Dcs? blue? pink? what would u like? i have two boys, almost 3 and 1.5 amd i think another boy would be great ( in fact im terrified of having a girl because it would be "new" like the great unknown!!! not thinking about twins though, but that would be cool ( though exhauting)
We're sort of ttc #4, but it's tricky as I still have no periods from bf. I may have just ovulated, but not completely sure, so I'm now on the 2ww to see if I get a period, or might even be pg, or in fact am still infertile for now.
Ooops, didn't answer your question. We always wanted 4, and although 3 are really tiring and there have been moments we've questioned the sanity of 4, overall we adore having the brood we've got and it doesn't feel quite complete or balanced without the number 4 we always intended.
Hello all! How rude of me to start a thread then sod off to where there is no internet for 4 days... Sorry!
I have a DD(12) and a DS (2.8). I still work and want to continue full time, though I suspect I am a bit insane. I can't not work - we can't afford it, and part time would have some big repercussions for where I am in my job. Saying that, never say never. I would love a job that pays me what I earn now (or more ) to work from home. Ah, if only. Need to get pg first though! It isn't the best time, but I'm worried that if I leave it, it might be more difficult. I know I want one.
How is everyone getting on? And, again, apologies for running away.
Also, I am sorry to hear about MC. I suspect I've had a couple of very early ones, but never ones I'd actually tested and got BFPs for (AF finally came, unusually late and after many symptoms) so I have no idea how hard that must be. Best of luck.
we're trying to conceive #3... we lost our precious DD2 in June at 20 weeks pregnancy. I think I have just missed my fertile period though, as I was on holiday with my parents last week, without DH, when I was probably ovulating... so we'll see this month...
thanks Kinky it was pretty tough! I'm still trying to deal with it, the grief never goes away. A few weeks ago we received the results of the post mortem which told us our little girl had a chromosomal disorder which was incompatible with life. There is nothing we could have done to save her. So I'm trying to keep that in mind and think/hope she hasn't suffered in her short life. I'm just so longing for another baby, to be pregnant again...
Well we are after #4 We have had a mental year where we have both quit our jobs, moved to a remote Scottish island and basically are living the dream.....so decided to mix it up with one last baby Our eldest is 14 and youngest is 8 Mirena was removed at Christmas and no joy yet so am beginning to wonder if I'm past it
Oh well.....AF due Wed so not long to wait for the let down this month!
Thats very sad blue, I hope you are ok and wishing you all the best of luck with trying again.
Hello gizzy That sounds like it's gonna be lots of fun when it happens! Has AF shown up yet today??
Well My AF Due tomorrow....have POAS x 5 since 2 wks ago and all Neg . I Don't feel like I'm due but mine seem to have a knack of creeping up on me when least expected!! Knowing my luck it'll come tonight while I'm on my night shift!!!
Will let you all know if the old witch appears!! xxx
Just started ttc#3 and it's getting to me already as I have shown no signs of ovulating cd15. Ds1&2 were conceived so easily on cd14 of a very regular 28 day cycle. Anyway we'll just keep 'plugging' away.
I always said 2 was my magic number but I started to get very broody recently and have decided to have just one more.! I just hope that I can draw a line this time because I really don't think dp would take too well to my nagging again for another one!