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think i'm pregnant with no4 havent told dh yet as i know he wont want it

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par05 Sat 18-Jun-11 20:44:57

think im pregnant with no4 have had a light discharge with blood in it but no period wasnt trying to get pregnant have been on the pill but missed 2 days has anyone had this before? havent done a test yet putting it off!! if i am i know my husband will not be happy dont know how to tell him as we have 3 already and no 3 was a bit of a surprise.. also dont want to tell my family they will give me grief!! anyone been in this situation please help thanks!!

emmaloupolman Sat 18-Jun-11 20:47:59

I would test as u may be worrying about nothing then if you are decide what you want to do

naturalbaby Sat 18-Jun-11 21:07:29

i was in this situation with my dc3. i had a feeling i was and knew dh absolutely didn't want a 3rd child. i dropped a few hints and told him i had a horrible feeling and his response wasn't great (you aren't, it'll be fine/nothing!) so i did the test and spent another few days dropping hints to try and warm him up...eventually i had to tell him to face up to the fact that it was a serious possibility and then eventually admitted i'd done a test/or he asked i can't remember. anyway. emotional rollercoaster for a few weeks till we told our family who were very positive and happy for us. no negative comments at all.
when do you think you can test?

par05 Sat 18-Jun-11 21:54:13

hi i am 3days late so will prob do test on monday am bricking it!! unless period comes! x

shellmc Sat 18-Jun-11 21:57:15

Hi there, I know sometimes if you miss a pill you can have a withdrawl bleed, but if your late on your period then you could be pregnant, but then again it could be your body adjusting to the missed pills. x

duckdodgers Sat 18-Jun-11 22:16:58

Why do you have to wait till Monday? There is no point in worrying about what your DH may or may not think until you know for sure, a test will tell you this.

naturalbaby Sun 19-Jun-11 20:45:43

good luck for tomorrow's testing. have you said anything to your dh yet?

par05 Mon 20-Jun-11 11:28:36

hi did a test and it was negative phew!! but still haven't had period!! did'nt say anything to dh glad about that would have worried him aswell!! still a bit miffed as why period hasn't come and why i had discharge with blood has anybody else had this ? thanks for support everyone xx

naturalbaby Mon 20-Jun-11 22:42:10

my cycle's been a bit funny this month, but i'm ebf so not expecting it to be exactly how it used to be even though it has been with my other babies. i was even wondering if there was another reason why it hasn't started yet!
could there be anything else going on that could stop your body having a regular cyle this month? diet or stress?

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