:( disappionted

[Kimmie30]

Hey girlies

So disappionted. Trying for baby number 4 and was so excited about being a week late but started my period today which so nicely waited til about 5 mins after i took a pregnancy test to rear it's ugly head. Obviously the pregnancy test was negative.

I am trying my hardest not to be disheartened but a little bit of me just cannot understand. My first 2 children were unplanned and my 3rd i fell pregnant on the second month of trying. This time nothing yet.

I know nobody has any answers, it is just nice to come on here and rant! :)

[readytobeamum]

Aww rant away! It is good to let it out! Last month I cried when the test was negative, I had convinced myself I was pregnant! It is so annoying how long it takes!! I though it would be easy!!! Didn't realise it was so hard!!!

[mommmmyof2]

Sorry to hear that, I hope next month is the month.All I can say really is maybe try taking some pressure of yourself (if you can) as you said you concieved your first 2 children and they were not planned.

Maybe it is because you are expecting it to happen! Things always happen when you least expect it.

Anyway good luck :)

[Sproglet]

Its so disappointing isn't it ?!when I was trying to concieve #2 is took me 9 months, my first, one month, 3 months after trying for #2 i had a positive result after 2 weeks of a missed period and AF came the next day...early miscarriage i think, was devestaed and thought it would never happen. Got really fed up and said this was my last month of trying th DH and then I was going back on the pill as I couldn't cope with the stress of it all, had sex twice in the last month of trying and low and behold it happened !You will get there you have prove x 3 that you can do it ! Good Luck!

[Kimmie30]

Awwwww thank you so much girlies. It is so nice to come on here and have support. I absolutely thought i was pregnant this month. I think i had obsessed about it so much that i had tricked my own body into thinking i was! I just wish i could switch off! I can't believe how long each month seems. I confided in one of my friends and she said why can't i just be happy with the 3 i have! I am so happy with the 3 i have but i want to add another one to my family! Once again thank you girlies xxx

[mommmmyof2]

No problem, it is sometimes nice to get it off your chest, and there is nothing wrong with wanting to add a new addition to your family.I do hope its good news soon x