Hi,
Am ttc#1 and have my second appointment with the gynae next week and would appreciate some advice as to what I should be asking him next.
Bit of a background (sorry is a bit long). Have been actively trying to get pregnant for around 11 months, though had been using the withdrawal method for at least 3 years prior to this which bothered my GP, she said I should have "accidently" got pregnant by now(!). Was diagnosed by my GP as having mild PCOS from an ultrasound though 21 day blood tests done in Sept came back as being within normal ranges but high for my age (am 35).
Was referred to the gynae for help with the PCOS/fertility investigations. I really didn't like the gynae very much. He looked at my ultrasound results and said in a very dismissive way that they were very "unremarkable" and when my fiance said that I seemed to have symptoms of insulin resistance which is often the cause of PCOS he jumped down his throat and said that they weren't symptoms at all (which was contrary to research we had done) and didn't understand why the GP had suggested a low GI diet or the metformin tablets.
He made a really big deal of how he "didn't understand" my GPs letter to him and made us read it and explain it to him. He then sat back and asked us what we wanted him to do for us, all the while referring to me as "she" or "her". I felt quite taken aback and stupidly was intimidated so didn't say very much during our appointment as he made us feel like we were wasting his time.
After consulting his colleague he grudgingly ordered more 21 day and some 5 day bloods and an HSG.
I have subsequently got a copy of the letter that he has sent to my GP about this consultation and am really annoyed that he appeared to not have listened to anything I told him about my cycles which have over the last few months changed to being erratic and scanty. He in fact put in his letter that I had a normal 28 day cycle and heavy bleeding. Not true, UCL 26-34 days with scant bleeding.
I am now dreading my follow up appointment with him. Should I question him about the letter he sent to my GP and insist that he amends this so that my GP doesn't wonder why I told her something completely different?
If my bloods and HSG come back normal what do I ask for next because I worry that he will just discharge us.
Also I am concerned that I have high prolactin levels because I appear for the last three months to have been lactating. My internet searches have indicated that if this is the case it would explain my longer cycle lengths and lighter mentstrual flow and obviously lack of BFP. Because of his reactions to our previous concerns and questions I am really worried to mention it. Are prolactin levels routinely checked as part of the 5 and 21 days bloods?
Sorry for the long post but would appreciate some advice as how best to get the most from this referral and how best to deal with this doctor. At present have just been made to feel like I am a moron and a time waster.
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Seeing the gynae next week. Advice needed please.
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poutintrout · 13/01/2011 11:55
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