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Too scared to test....

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SnowMiffles Mon 27-Dec-10 22:49:47

Ok. I know that if I saw any other thread like this I would just tell the OP to test. And I know I ought to. But over the year I have taken so many tests, as convinced myself I'm pg, and then BFN. So sick of looking at them, that I almost feel as if I'm being silly imagining I'm pregnant.

So instead I'm asking my MN friends if I am, because of course you'll know!!! grin

First month of consultant has confirmed he thinks I ovulated - he reckons on CD13. But could of course be CD14 or 15. Anyway.

On CD27 had a BFN. And he told me to expect AF on about CD28. Which would be 14 or 15 days after ov.

It is now CD33. No AF. Had some spotting after JSing yesterday, but nothing more.

My boobs have been sore for well over a week now. Although less so today. And no other symptoms.

I know that it sounds like I could be pg. And I'm not being ridiculous to think it's likely. But having seen so many BFNs I can't bear to do another. But not sleeping due to thinking about it! DH has poor sperm, so that is why I think it's unlikely.

Thanks for reading my ramble and any kind of thoughts or comments would be great. My DH won't listen to me obsessing anymore!!! wink

Starisonthetree Mon 27-Dec-10 22:53:26

Sorry my magic scanning wand is not working - you need to test

blueberrysantabait Mon 27-Dec-10 22:58:36

Snow - I don't want to put a downer on the fact that you could be PG but on my first 2 cycles of clomid (tests showing ov)I had the same symptoms and my AF was late - I spent alot of time doing the am I, aren't I and worrying about it being either.

I wasn't but had all the symptoms, my AF arrived at cd36 and cd38 respectively.

I hope you are.

SnowMiffles Mon 27-Dec-10 23:07:55

Thank you!!

Blueberry - that is probably what I needed to hear! I figured that if I'd definitely ov'd nearly 3 weeks ago, I couldn't work out why I'd not started. So to hear that you had long cycles too has put it in perspective.

winterwombatland Tue 28-Dec-10 04:47:25

I am sooooo tempted to tell you to test, but have no experience of clomid so guess it's best to listen to someone who has. Please do post on here again if / when you do test - fingers, toes and other things all tightly crossed for you.

blueberrysantabait Tue 28-Dec-10 07:52:07

Forgot to say the cycle I did conceive on I had absolutely no symptoms at all and was expecting AF at any moment - waited until I was at my latest before I tested.

SnowMiffles Tue 28-Dec-10 10:04:22

Ok. I woke up this morning and couldn't bear having another day of knicker-checking. So tested. Another BFN. But thankfully DH looked at it for me, so I didn't actually see it!!

Still waiting for AF - where is it??!!! Nearly 3 weeks since I ovulated!!

Well, back to the drawing board....

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