Stuck here because I don't want it to turn into a horrible mess on AIBU.
Toddler has chronic brittle asthma. It's taken a long time to get the medication to a point where we don't have attacks all the time. From six months it was monthly, then they added something in and it became alternate months etc until now the last one was 18 months ago with just a little more delicate than other kids, not no attacks.
Started nursery last September, come October/November the weather changed and we needed to add in a blue inhaler into the middle of the day as a cough developed. Over the winter Toddler has had bags under the eyes, very pale skin etc so we've constantly been reminded to keep up with this blue.
We tell nursery, nothing happens. I say "the cough is really bad today, it's brought on retching all the way here, you must give that blue at lunch time before playtime". End of day "cough has been fine didn't need inhalers, it was probably just the walk".
I've been in, Mum's been in (she's scarier than me without losing her temper like me) between us we've signed three times - twice because we've told them to give it and once because it was needed.
Just over a week ago nursery went on holiday to a farm for a few days. Medication was put in a shoe box and a sheet emailed to them explaining the medication.
Shoe box contains
Brown inhaler
Green inhaler
Blue inhaler
Three Montelukast tablets (one for each night and one for dropping on the floor )
A bottle of Piriton
Copied from the sheet:
Morning
? 1 puff of green for a count of ten
? 2 puffs of brown for a count of ten twice
For a count of 30
Afternoon (around lunch time, before going outside)
? 2 puffs of blue for a count of ten, twice (count of twenty)
Evening
? 1 puff of green for a count of ten
? 2 puffs of brown for a count of ten twice
For a count of 30
? 1 Montelukast (Singulaire) tablet to be chewed (Toddler calls this "special sweetie")
? 5ml of Piriton (it?s very runny so pour slowly)
Emergency is unlikely but just in case:
Getting breathless
? 2 puffs of blue for a count of ten twice
I that Toddler is very good at medication so to ask if they're not sure.
I was a little anxious but thought they might get the hint! A few days after getting back I was talking to the manager and she explained how Toddler, with hand on chest, had said one day "I can feel my asthma coming on" so the teacher had given one puff of green. I felt a little about that.
Although green is the same as blue, so not really a problem if Toddler's not feeling good but it's a higher dose and longer acting, so you can't do what I've put there and it doesn't kick in as fast (a bit like gas&air vs paracetamol!)but the main reason for feeling was it suggested they hadn't read the sheet. Then I opened the box and found the 3 tablets still in the tray and Toddler tells me that they'd given one green and one brown morning and night.
Last Thursday Toddler stayed over at my parents house. Friday I got a call from Mum to say she was on the way to the GP as it looked like Toddler may have chicken pox. No chicken pox but some sort of an allergic reaction (we know there is an allergy which is why the daily piriton, but not what) the eczema is bad,conjunctivitis and Toddler is run down.
May not be related but Mum is ready to kick off at nursery! She was going to do nursery run this morning so she could have a word but having spent all night awake with Toddler throwing up all over her bed we've decided it's not a nursery day!
I'm just glad all this is over soon with school starting, but I'm so angry that they've done this to my child. They've never seen an attack Toddler style! They've never watched an oximeter and looked at each other knowing that reading means a heart attack is imminent or felt the life draining from the fragile body limp on your shoulder AND NOR SHOULD THEY OR WE AGAIN BECAUSE THEY THINK THEY KNOW BETTER THAN THE PAEDIATRICIAN!!!
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AIBU to expect nursery to follow instructions on medication???
confuddledDOTcom · 29/03/2010 14:07
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