My five year old DD hasn't been herself for the whole of the school summer holidays and I'm not sure whether it's a normal/developmental thing or whether I should take her to see someone (GP? Health visitor?).
Out of nowhere she's started saying she feels bad because of things she's done in the past. Examples are: pretending she had a tummy ache at school to get out of doing an activity she didn't fancy, picking up a sequin from the floor during assembly and putting it in her drawer, making a joke about my boobs to our next door neighbour.... She also keeps saying that she doesn't know what it feels like to have fun/enjoy herself. The most worrying thing she has said is that she felt relieved when a friend's baby died because she was only used to her having one child. This really shocked me - this happened two years ago (when DD was 3) and I only once briefly chatted to her about it because I had to explain why my friend was no longer pregnant and there was no baby.
DD says her brain is telling her that she's done something bad.
I just don't know how to help her. I've been gently and briefly responding - briefly acknowledging her concerns, but reassuring her that she doesn't need to feel bad about these things. But it doesn't seem to be helping.
DD has also been complaining of tummy aches frequently throughout the day every day since school broke up, but she doesn't seem ill.
Could this all be down to worrying about the new school year? She was very worried about starting school this time last year, but the bad feelings are new and they worry me.
Sorry to ramble on. Any advice would be much appreciated :(
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Worried/worrying five year old
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BlackInk · 22/08/2017 12:24
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