DH and I are at the end of our tether with our 4 year old son. He's been dry for over a year, he took to it really well and is now dry overnight too. Poo's are a very, very different story though. In October last year we thought we'd cracked it - he finally started doing it on the toilet (with a training seat - never took to the potty, even for wee's). Then it hurt him one day, and ever since he has only ever poo'd in a nappy. We've tried absolutely everything - books, songs, videos, watching us on the toilet, taking the poo out of his nappy and putting it in the toilet. We've upped his fibre intake - he eats alot more fruit now, has linseeds and raisins with his cereal every morning, he drinks alot and we give him calfig on a daily basis to keep him regular. We've been really keen and sat him on the toilet but he won't go, so we've backed off and let him do it in his own time, but he just will not do it anywhere.
We've now got into a hideous pattern of with-holding which then leads to constipation and his tummy gets so distended that after a few days we end up using suppositories, which is distressing him to the point of having to pin him down to put it in. He tells us he tries, but it won't come out or its too hard. We have had him in a nappy for over 3 hours this morning because he said he needed to let the poo out, but every time he gets the sensation he panics and holds it in. No matter what we do, nothing helps. We try so hard not to get angry, and we explain that he will be poorly if he doesn't let it out, and that he needs to be brave, but he doesn't understand.
Please help us break this horrible cycle. We're at breaking point with this, and just want our poor boy to be healthy and happy.
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4 year old refusing to poo
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Mammabear31 · 07/06/2017 10:20
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