11yo DS (year 6) has always been anxious and a worrier - but on the whole content and sociable.
However over the last 6 months his anxiety has escalated and we are having a nightmare at bedtime. As soon as he goes to bed he gets upset and worried that he'll be the last one asleep, which perpetuates his anxiety and feeds into his anxiety. Then he finds it impossible to sleep. The situation has reached a point where he now sees a CAMHS psychologist to try and help. He can't articulate what the problem is (says school is fine) he just says he gets bad feelings at bedtime and can't get to sleep. Poor thing is so exhausted the next day he is grumpy and awful to everyone.
We've tried everything; limited screen time, warm bath, stories, meditation CD, opportunity to chat, but nothing makes any difference. He starts sobbing and makes demands about what time me and DH are allowed to go to bed (not allowed to go to bed until he is asleep, and last night that was midnight!)
He's also demanded either me or DH sleep with him, which I agreed to once. Currently he's sleeping in DDs room much to her annoyance, which has helped a small bit but that's not ideal long term.
Apart from any general advice, it would be useful to hear thoughts on resorting to short term sleeping medication. He is beyond exhausted and not coping well during the day. Once he actually falls asleep he stays asleep - it's just getting him to that point. I hope that inconjunction with CAMHS support he'll soon be able to settle himself once again. Having read up on sleep problems at this age it appears to be quite a common problem, I just want to help him through.
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11 yo sleep problems
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peppansalt · 07/04/2016 22:16
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