DD is, IMO, a hypochondriac. I honestly cannot remember the last day when she didn't have some ache or pain to complain about. She seems to have a very low tolerance for pain as well - a slight bump, or hair brushing, will result in howls of agony.
However, I am worried that as a result of all the "crying wolf" I may be ignoring something that I should be taking seriously. She constantly complains of being tired, even when getting 11 hours of sleep a night. A 9yo begging for early bedtimes just doesn't seem right. She often has stomach pains at night, and sometimes in the morning. I suspect these may be stress-related as she seems to line things up to worry/stress about at bedtime, often school stuff but she seemed to find things to worry about even in the holidays. She also has real "panda eyes" (dark rings). But. She is Little Miss Sunshine at school. Even members of staff who don't teach her have remarked on it to me, and every single subject report last term mentioned how cheery she was. She takes part in plenty of sport, seems to have enough energy at school.....
If I take her to the GP I feel I would be validating the moans and inviting more. Or would I be letting her know that I do listen? You can probably tell that I am finding her quite hard work at the moment, but I am also worried about her health and happiness (or lack of).
I guess what I am looking for is some ideas as to what the underlying issue might be, so that I can look for other clues. Dietary (reasonably balanced diet but maybe short in veg/fruit and long on carbs)? Allergies (I have assorted contact allergies, she seemed to get hayfever last summer)? Something else altogether? She is tall for her age (tallest in her year group, although she is also one of the oldest) and not skinny.
All suggestions welcome....
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9yo hypochondriac with panda eyes and always tired...WWYD?
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stealthsquiggle · 05/01/2016 16:23
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