There's a women that I used to work with that has applied for fostering/adoption, she ticks all of the right boxes, she's a nurse, lives in a good area and will probably pass her crb, have impeccable references, however she left her last job under a cloud for being incompetent, her 2 children are on red alert at school for their attendance for punctuality. Homework is rarely if ever done. Her eldest daughter is 16, has adhd and regularly hits the 10 yrs old sibling, is left home alone for extremely long periods. The mum has even indicated to me that she's going to ask if she can leave the elder daughter babysitter the foster child.
The 16yr old is also regularly in trouble with the police, drunkeness, sexually active from the age of 14, fighting, the lis goes on. There's more than likely hospital records of this. Daughter has has cahms team involved, It's clear that the mum is applying just for the financial benefits which a makes me mad
The mum has been in 3 relationships in the last 3 years and has a history of promiscuity.
My question is this, is it just a crb check, references and training that are used to pass someone to be a carer? Do the team look into the children's school and medical records as I feel if they did she wouldn't pass as if she can't look after her own kids she shouldn't be allowed to foster
Advice please
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MrsNurse · 06/08/2015 09:20
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