Im in tears just writing this, I am 22 and a first time mum but im struggling with y 2 year old, he says around 24 words not all clearly but I know what he means and so does he. He is the worlds fussiest eater and literally has gone of nearly everything bar junk. Today 3 of my friends came round that he hardly sees and he clung to me the whole time wouldn't even look at them, hes not shy around other kids or any member of the family just people hes not used to, I then made his lunch and got his table ready but as soon as I sat him in his chair he climbed straight out and clung to me again, I asked my friends to wait outside and pretend they were leaving to see if he'd eat, as soon as they left he ate (hardly anything but more than when they were here) im not sure if im being paranoid or wether he is slow, as i know some mothers whos 2 year old count to 10. Sorry for the long post, please no hate im just scared
He sounds fine, lots of 2 year olds are shy around strangers and fussy about food. Your friends children may be able to recite numbers to 10 that does not mean that they can count, if you put 6 things in front of them they are unlikely to be able to assess the quantity as 6. Speak to your hv if you need reassurance.
He sounds fine to me. We all have bad days. He is communicating with you and trusts you. He felt uncertain around a number of your friends at once for whatever reason, that won't last forever. As for eating, just keep going, let him share what you are eating, let him fill his own plate if you can, rather than just handing it over, and try to stay calm - it is hard but it is his body and his choice what to eat, keep providing good stuff and it will not last forever.
It's a while since mine were 2 but I remember all the developmental milestones like it was yesterday. I think what's expected at 2 is to be able to say approx 50 words . Around that age they start combining words and I think you need a vocabulary of around 50 in order to do this. So while he may be a bit behind the " expected" level there are lots of children who are not speaking at all at that age.
I would mention it to the health visitor. There are long waiting lists so it's better to be in the system and if he has taken off speech wise by the time an appt is due you can also cancel. I remember mine were a bit slow to get to 50 words but then took off and haven't shut up since
When I say 2 he's 22 months so not quite 2 yet, I know by the time he's 18 I'll be like what was I worrying about I can't get him to shut up now, but it's just worrying that's all, thanks for all the advice got an appointment next Wednesday with health visitor x
I have a 2.4 yr old ds who is clingy with me, fussy with food, and can count to ten but can't relate it to the number of items and often misses out 1 and 2! Mine does speak a lot but a previous poster is right - they suddenly explode with words as if they've just been soaking it all in and it just starts to click one day. Of my 7 antenatal friends with same aged children there is a big difference between all of them, some can do things others can't and vice versa. Really don't worry and just have a chat with your health visitor