NC, as this is about one of DS's best friends, and also some aspects I do not feel I can write about fully for the sake of his privacy.
The BF (young teen) has a long standing condition, which has recently developed a very serious (probably life-limiting) complication. He may live for several years more, but also if things take a further turn for the worse he could decline rapidly.
He is currenty in hospital, and may remain there for several weeks. DS knows something of his BF's condition, but does not AFAIK know that it can be life-limiting. I do not know (nor would I seek to interfere with) what BF might or might not tell DS.
Two questions: does anyone know of any good resources for me to look at now about how to help preteens and teens deal with life-limiting illness in someone they are close to? I want to have a think about it now, rather than have to scramble to find out or make something up on the spot if a need arises suddenly.
And, what are the most appreciated little things to take during visits for the BF's mother who is currently living in the hospital too?
Many thanks for any help.
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Supporting DS when a friend is very seriously ill - can you help?
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nether · 25/02/2014 11:09
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