Does anyone else have any experience or suggestions of how to deal with anxiety type issues in a child?
My six year old is very anxious in so many different ways. She is terrified of being abandoned - even nipping out to hang washing on the line will have her in a hysterical panic if I don't warn her first that I'm going outside. She is claustrophobic; she can't bear to be in a room with the door shut (although she can tolerate it if there is glass in the door, so thankfully she can manage ok at school) and is hysterical at the idea of using a lift. I can't, for example, take both her and my one year old into a shop together if we will need to go upstairs because she is hysterical at the idea of going in a lift, yet hysterical at the thought of walking up the stairs alone as well. We can't go on an aeroplane, as I know she couldn't cope. She finds it difficult to go on ferry, because sitting in the car as we drive onto the boat throws her into a panic as well.
She is very shy, very cautious by nature, and a worrier. Despite all this, she does have good social skills, she has plenty of friends, and I have had positive feedback from her teachers.
What can I do to help her? It breaks my heart to see her so distressed. She says she has things that make her scared but she can't (or won't) tell me what they are. Its almost as if she can't put them into words.
I fear for the future, as there is no sign of her growing out of these fears, if anything they have got worse as time goes by. I just want her to be happy.
I have been in contract with the Young Minds charity, and had a telephone consultation, but to be honest they didn't seem able to help.
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Six year old, phobias, anxiety, what do I do?
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treaclesoda · 16/04/2013 23:17
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