As I said, she is 9-years-old.. she's 4.5ft and weighs 6st 10lb (one stone and half less than me!)
She weighed herself today and cried, telling me she was fat.
I assured her she was beautiful (and she is!) but that if she wanted to 'be more healthy' we could look at ways.
The awful thing to admit here is that I actually work with adults who are trying to lose weight, I have lost a lot myself, so how did I not realise my dd wasn't just overweight, but obese (in the BMI charts).
She eats well, weetabix for breakfast, wholemeal bread with meat/tuna for lunch, with apple, orange, and a cereal bar.
Dinner would be pasta/stirfry/meat & potatoes.
Though I probably do give her big dinner portions.
We're going to have to up the exercise I think.
Ds is younger and has no weight problems. Dh did when he was younger, as did I, and his parent seem to think it's OK to feed them rubbish, whether they are for it or not.
Dunno if this is the right place, but have any of you dealt with overweight children in a way that hasn't scarred them for life?
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9-year-old DD needs to lose weight - how can I help her without making her feel bad?
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FairhairedandFrustrated · 05/06/2011 20:46
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