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Best way to give notice to childminder?

(9 Posts)
kayakker Sat 26-Sep-09 15:41:45

Hi. Grateful for advice from any CMs or parents who use CMs. I need to give a month's notice to our CM who's been great, but cannot accommodate new times for DCs schools.

I find these conversations a bit awkward and was going to email to explain, saying that I would also follow up with a phone call. Gives the other person time to absorb the news. DP thinks emails are rude and I should just call.

Any thoughts?!


llareggub Sat 26-Sep-09 15:43:38

When I gave notice I went to see her with DH, thanked her for being so wonderful, told her our plans and handed over our letter.

HSMM Sat 26-Sep-09 15:59:09

Face to face with a letter setting out your intentions and reasons. Including a reference for her to use in future would be a nice touch. Presumably she knows she cannot accommodate the times, so she will not be surprised?

thebody Sat 26-Sep-09 17:42:40

agree qith the above, face to face, and maybe a little gift, as she has been a good cm. Dont worry too much, cms know that mindees move on, all part of the business.

I always ask if I can give the home number of 'old' parents to serious 'new' ones as a reference, you could suggest this.

Good luck

aGalChangedHerName Sat 26-Sep-09 17:47:52

I am a CM and i would be expecting a parent to give notice if i couldn't do a change in hours.

I am sure she will be expecting notice to be given.

Don't worry about it.

Just hand over a letter and say you hate to leave but you need new hours.

pippin26 Sat 26-Sep-09 18:27:37

Its not nice for either party but I appreciate you are trying to do the right thing.

As others have suggested - a letter stating your intentions - ie I am giving the one month termination notice of our contract, the last date of childminding required is***

Go talk to her - it really won't be as bad as you think it might be.
Tell her you will do her a reference or has she got a end of contract questionnaire?
If you have been happy with her get her some flowers/box choccies/alcohol wouldn't go amiss on the end date. And don't forget to keep in touch with her - us minders get very attached to our charges y'no!

StrictlyAvadaKedavra Sat 26-Sep-09 19:33:33

Definitely that last comment, people sometimes underestimate how much we miss our mindees when they go, as I am sure the mindees do too, it's lovely to see them again once in a while

kayakker Mon 28-Sep-09 22:00:09

Thanks for this - very helpful!

kayakker Mon 28-Sep-09 22:01:13

Thanks for this - very helpful!

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