I think if you value your self-respect and your profession then you need to nip this in the bud. You are being seriously unprofessional and are jepodising a family and your career. The former is unforgiveable.
Had this happen in past. Legs went to jelly, sounded like was pissed when tried to talk to him - then a whole load of verbal diarrhoea came from my gob and I sounded like a total tit . Had to compose myself and rehearse 'chitchat' before he got here every day.
Thought it was just me - thank you for reassuring me.....
Never felt this way bout a mum, have to say
Agree with nbee - terminating him is a bit drastic and would cost you your ofsted registration....
Lots of people have idle fantasies. Childminders are usually too busy. Your current mindees must be too undemanding. I could offer you a trade, in the interests of your mental wellbeing. Or you could get some more of your own (check first that both parents are unattractive).
I had a crush on one of my daughters friends dad.... untill I got to know his wife a bit better and she started filling me in with lots of his bad habbits, which made me realise its better just to dream, because in reality they are all the same
hi everyone, just joined and would you believe it a thread for just my problem, just might be too late. Not sure what to do, mind and heart are racing and I don't think it will blow over as suggested, he is a bit of a dream, a real dream. I mean what would you have done Rosiegirl if you had not found out he had bad habits, I think I want too do something but need reassurance either way. Help?????
I don't know about "crush" but I did find one of my dads attractive until the mum described in detail the hairstyle and make up he used in the 80s. It coloured - quite literally! - every subsequent thought of him