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Au Pairs - need a little advice

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mishmash Thu 28-Apr-05 11:55:09

Hello ladies
Just looking for a little advice on how to approach organising an au pair to fill in whilst my nanny is on mat leave.

I have joined Au Pair world and have had loads of responses some which I have rejected but I have also added a lot of them to my favourites.

I want to acknowledge those I have added to favourites but don't them to all expect to the get the position.

How do I whittle it down - some sound really nice and are exactly what I am looking for.

What is the next step when I tell them I am interested?

Thanks in advance

bubblerock Thu 28-Apr-05 12:00:38

What about giving them a scenario with your children in mind and asking them to write how they would react/cope/diffuse the situation, this might help you get to know their way of thinking and whether it's in tune with yours and also how good their English is if they are foreign.

Just an idea... Good luck with your search!

Ameriscot2005 Thu 28-Apr-05 12:04:45

This is the hardest part!

Have you actually paid for membership? If you have, then when you say "Yes, I'm interested" in response to an application, your email addy becomes visible to the girl. I've found that 50% of the time, or more, the girl will then contact you and you can use that to start a dialogue.

Failing that, I would just try to rank the candidates and start emailing them.

mishmash Thu 28-Apr-05 12:05:36

Great idea Bubble - thanks

mishmash Thu 28-Apr-05 12:08:19

Hi Ameriscot
No haven't paid membership yet until I got the hang of things. I won't need anyone until Sept/Oct time so I have plenty of time. But then time goes so quickly and I am not the most organised

Ameriscot2005 Thu 28-Apr-05 12:12:12

You can't go much further until you pay up, but it may still be a little early for you. Membership lasts for 3 months, so it may be best just to wait another 4-6 weeks.

You could put a message on your profile saying that you will contact those who have said they are interested in June or July.

Or if there are one or two that are particularly promising, CAT me their profile no...

Ameriscot2005 Thu 28-Apr-05 12:14:17

Didn't mean to sound dishonest there - obviously, if you find a girl from any of these sites, you should pay your fee to them. But I can help out if you don't want to let a good one get away at this time

uwila Thu 28-Apr-05 15:55:19

I send out a standard questionaire to everyone and then I pick and choose through them. I like to have it all in writing so I can go back and reference what each one said on any particular question. This also serves to test their computer skills, which are very important to me becaus they be able to communicate with me on e-mail.

majorstress Thu 28-Apr-05 16:14:37

I found it was good to whittle first with the very basic stuff, like can they start on the date you need-obviously there is no point pursuing it if the answer is no I need a job right now, or no I am in college back home at that date. Can they work at the hours you need or do they already have a course or something to do, too? Also immigration with people who are already here-I had one trying to tell me they are here on a student visa from the Phillipines, and there was no problem about them missing their course since their college was too far away to attend if they took my job-another came from Nigeria on a fiancee visa but wasn't going to marry the chap after all- I didn't believe them. You don't need that.

majorstress Thu 28-Apr-05 16:23:56

I think the quickest thing is to do as Uwila says and send a questionaire. That will whittle in itself as many will be incapable of doing it for one reason or another-though lots don't get that much online access at home, not everywhere has broadband. Since you think you want someone already here, don't you, before you fork out to the big international sites, have you tried this one:, also keep an eye on gumtree you never know who might advertise themselves.

Don't get your heart set on any until you have spoken to them, at least on the phone-these profiles can be very deceiving.

majorstress Thu 28-Apr-05 16:27:14

Ameriscot, 3 cheers! btw My GAP subscription expired on St George's Day and I breathed a sigh of relief! They got lots of dosh from me for nothing in the end (my own fault as much as theirs I admit).

mishmash Thu 28-Apr-05 17:38:23

Thanks a mill - am going to contact the agency where I got my current nanny also

bubblerock Thu 28-Apr-05 18:50:06

I don't remember paying a fee for the site I used to find my aupair, not sure which one it was though - possibly

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