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Quick bit of last minute advice please - I'm having my fist ever skype chat with a potential au pair

(5 Posts)
MrsFogi Wed 05-Nov-14 19:57:30

- do you usually do this alone or do you involve your dp?
- if they're good do you then arrange a follow up so they can meet the dcs?
- do you make yourself look decent or let them see you in your usual state (in my case very comfortable clothing that I pull on after work)?
Any tips for a first timer?

ClawHandsIfYouBelieveInFreaks Wed 05-Nov-14 21:03:07

Well your DP should be involved if he lives in the same house as you! He's got to share...and she'll be looking after his DC I assume...why wouldn't he be involved?

I would show myself as myself. I wouldn't make an extra effort.

Karoleann Thu 06-Nov-14 13:48:46

I've never had DP on Skype for a first interview, I always do a first interview just with me and then a second interview with the children. DH usually sticks his head around the door at the end.

I always look semi-decent anyway..but don't go to a big effort - although it is a bit off-putting as you can see yourself at the bottom of the screen!

Speak slowly and cleary.
Sorry will finish later as DD needs me

Simmy12 Fri 07-Nov-14 17:40:46

Smile and be friendly. Try to be relaxed as possible because there's a 90% the possible AP is having a nervy bee too. I usually do them by myself, then if things go well on the second skype chat I include the kiddies too.

Cat111 Sat 08-Nov-14 15:05:45

I tend to do it with the kids there to see how the ap reacts to them.

I try not to look too much of a fright but not make too much effort either - kind of supermarket casual.

I then try to do a second interview by myself if the ap seems like they might be nice.

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