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Job changing to full time

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Kooza Mon 19-Aug-13 11:42:13

Quick question - we have a nanny who currently works 4 days a week. It hasn't always been plain sailing but with patience and good communication we are doing much better and I do like her a lot.

I am returning (very unexpectedly) to work next month and will need someone 5 days a week. I have asked her whether she can do that and she said she would rather not if at all possible.

Do I HAVE to try to find another person to cover the 5th day or can I just give her notice and look for a full time replacement? I would definitely rather not have the hassle of having 2 nannies with all the handovers and holidays and stuff.

I have told her that we would obviously want her to stay as our first choice but if she doesn't want to do the extra day I'm not 100% sure of my position. My thinking was that she would need to resign or I would give her notice as circumstances have now changed?

Any advice appreciated!

nannynick Mon 19-Aug-13 13:04:27

When did they start working for you? More than 24 months?

Kooza Mon 19-Aug-13 13:52:41

No, she has been with us for 7 months.

nannynick Mon 19-Aug-13 16:36:47

You can just give notice as per the contract.

Suggest you tell her that you need her 5 days and doing 4 is not an option, that she will lose her job if she won't do 5 days. Make sure she understands that you don't want 2 nannies and thus will recruit someone to do all 5 days.
Does she really want to look for another job?

Your requirements have changed so either she adapts or she looks for a new job.

oscarwilde Mon 19-Aug-13 17:17:41

Why does she only work 4 days? Study/Does she have kids/lifestyle choice? Maybe you can be flexible and offer that she brings her kids with her on the 5th day?

I don't know how old your child(ren) are but it might be good for them socially to be in nursery one day a week.

I would be wary of giving her notice if she is a good nanny. I have plenty of colleagues who seem to have a revolving door and endless horror stories. Lots of good nannies out there but I'm reluctant to change unless absolutely necessary given the impact on the kids.

minderjinx Mon 19-Aug-13 18:10:55

It sounds like five days would be unwelcome but perhaps doable in the short term, which might buy you some time to look at other options such as a nursery day or a childminder for your fifth day. You could even give another option a trial run before making your final decision, as long as everyone knows that is how things stand with you.

Blondeshavemorefun Mon 19-Aug-13 22:10:56

now you are happy with your nanny i would think carefully before issuing an ultimatum of 5 days or you lose your job

i work 3 or 4 days a week, and no way i would stay and work 5 days permanently did it for 15years and want me time now so if i was told this i would be looking for a new job asap

totally understand you dont want hassle 2 nannies/holidays etc, so i would think carefully about using a cm or nursery/gps/dad to do the 5th day

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