I am looking at getting an au pair next year for the DCs, who will be 11 and 9 at the time. I am a single parent working full time and I anticipate that the au pair will have sole charge of the DCs after school till about 6.30pm.
I am expecting to need an au pair for at least 2 or 3 years but am wondering at what age other mums decide their DCs no longer need one? I know that there is no legal age at which it's ok to leave your DCs at home alone.
Am happy to pay for an au pair for as long as needed, but I imagine a lot of au pairs would not find a job where the oldest child is, say, 14 (so not much younger than the au pair) very appealing.
Just interested to know what other mums with full time jobs do as the DCs get older.
I know someone who's 16 year old daughter has an au pair - obviously not for childcare, but because she is really helpful with language learning, and also she does an hour or so of cleaning each day which just helps keep on top of things.
I was wondering the same thing recently.. but i decided that as we have a big age gap.. 10 years over 4 children, although the when oldest will be 15 the youngest will only be 5. I also figure that eldest dc will have lots of after school stuff that she wont be able to drive to, and even when she can drive then she will not want to take other dc with her so I will need two old enough to stay home or change my job to work mostly school hours or nights.. Both an option in the future. It may be easier just to keep on ap even when dc are a bit older!