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Mother's help - how much should I pay?

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PrincessOfWails Tue 06-Sep-11 12:44:28

I'm thinking of getting a mother's help (I'm assuming that's what he is!) 2 nights a week for a couple of hours.
He's a lad who works FT at a local nursery, but I need someone to come in for a couple of hours, between 6-8, to just be an extra pair of hands at bath and bedtime. (I have a 3yo, and a newborn.) His job will be to deal with the newborn whilst I get the 3yo to bed, or take over with bathtime if the newborn needs a feed etc. I'll be there, so it's not babysitting; I'm not expecting any help with the housework (God, I wish! smile) or anything like that, just an extra pair of hands.

How much should I pay? It's going to be in cash (I assume), and seeing as it's not a great time, I can also give him an evening meal if he wants that.

Many thanks!

irregularegular Tue 06-Sep-11 12:47:39

I'd pay him the same hourly rate as he gets at the nursery, and make sure it's enough to cover any extra travel he has to do.

ChitChattingaway Tue 06-Sep-11 14:11:07

Oh no, nursery rates are barely above minimum wage - and in fact if you take into account extra training, staff meetings etc some staff are actually paid BELOW minimum wage.

Obviously he's trained, so around £8 per hour would seem fair.

PrincessOfWails Tue 06-Sep-11 14:33:40

£8 per hour sounds about right - and no extra travelling as he'll be coming from the nursery which is down the road (yes, I live 2 fields from a nursery!).
Didn't want to be too stingy, and I'm not rich enough to be over generous!!

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