Would you be pissed off with him? He booked a lads weekend away for this weekend months ago, no issue with that; sods law Ofsted ring me and so I had my inspection last Friday. I haven't seen DH since Friday morning, tho did speak briefly on the phone Friday eve so he knows my grade and knows I was unhappy with the experience. He comes home in a grump this afternoon and has yet to ask me anything about how Friday went and why I was unhappy. I am offended by his lack of interest. Am I being over sensitive..?
Perhaps this should be in AIBU but Im not brave enough
Thanks Boys, its not that I got a bad grade (I got a good which I am pleased wit , honestly!) its just that I had worked so hard and had so much stuff to show her and she wasn't interested. She just sat down, said she had boxes to fill in (and showed me them!) and said that she needed to crack on. She didnt read my SEF which took HOURS! She read less than half of everythign else eg polices, parent questionnaire, daily diaries, I could go on. Im being daft, who needs someone hanging around for hours, but she was gone in two hours because of another appointment so she never had any intention of really looking at what I had to show. It was my first ofsted I guess I expected someone as rigorous as I feel we are expected to be.
As for DH. Well, he's rarely interested in anything, another thread entirely I guess.
If it makes you feel any better, at my very 1st grading inspection, When the Inspector turned up(15mins early) she told me her manager was coming along shortly as she was being inspected too!! They were here for just over 4 hours. They sat in my dining room and didnt move. I too worked hard too make sure everything was in place. The LO I was looking after (he was 8mths) and I sat in there with them the whole time, They too never asked to see any thing, portfolio, daily diaries etc etc although it was all on the table in front of them, neither did they ask to see me interacting with the LO. They did ask me a few questions, and said at the end how good the LO was, but they basically sat there and talked about my inspector!
Well done on getting a good. Maybe she didn't spend too much time looking at your paperwork as she got a good feeling about you overall. I think they have been "blitzing" areas to catch up, I was nearly a year overdue and the inspector was staying in a local hotel.
Is your DH usually supportive about your job? Mine isn't so I wouldn't be too surprised if he showed only basic interest.
It sounds like he has something else on his mind, did something happen on his weekend away maybe? (I am only thinking about a disagreement with one of his friends - nothing sinister)