Hi could anyone tell me about the clary sage, evening primrose and tea thats suppose to get you going in labour?? i know so of these things you need to do in advance, it isnt just a case of doing it once for it to work. also i dont want to make the baby come out unless she is ready. will all of these things only encourage an already cooked bubba to arrive? my other 2 arrived at 36 and 37 weeks without having to do anything. i am 37 weeks on monday by midwife dates but by my dates ( short cycle ) i am 38 weeks on monday and 2/5 engaged.