Hi. Since everyone was so encouraging I thought I should tell that DH and I made up nicely before c/s and things went well and I felt supported. Apparently DH was worried that I was going to have a "major operation". I think we didn't feel that there was anything missing because of the fact that it was a c/s not a vaginal birth: the baby came out and we were over the moon. Baby is fine (and my pelvic floor and perineum in good condition ) Now I have the baby blues(or posnatal depression) issues, but I thing I should post somewhere else, where? Thanks!