So am umming and ahhing about NCT classes- last pregnancy (ended in MMC at 10 weeks) I was signed up from the second the second line appeared (thankfully they agreed I didn't have to pay until I was past three months!) anyhow this pregnancy I haven't even looked at NCT until after my 13 week scan (friday) just in case but since NCT gets booked up so quick I may already be too late.
Anyhow am pondering about the benefits of it really as I am a childcare teacher so I know all about 1st, 2nd, 3rd stage labour, epidurals pros and cons etc. etc. And I read so much on here my knowledge has increased massively so although obviously there will be things they can teach me I have such a good grounding in the basics I'm worried it may be a waste of money. I am definitely planning on going to the free hospital antenatal classes with DH so he can also learn and to hopefully make friends.
I have read on here NCT classes are great for making friends (which is the only reason probably I think I want to go) but then I also read (on here) NCT classes are all more middle class parents (like us I guess?) so some people go to make friends with people "like them" which I am a bit uncomfortable with and now am cross at the elitist nature of NCT (well not NCT per se but the people who plan on going to avoid the riff raff of the general public!)!
Hmmm think this post is probably saying I will save my £250 or whatever it is and spend it on cots and pushchairs from ebay.
(oh and my birth plan is probably as follows: active birth as much as possible- if I can't cope with the pain- gimme an epidural as soon as I cave and ask for one please! Just do whatever is medically best for me and baby!)
So probably don't need natural births eulogised for me. Ho hum.
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To NCT or not NCT?
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Thandeka · 29/07/2009 09:32
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