Hello to all of you, I have just joined the mumsnet.
I am 25 weeks pregnant (my first pregnancy) and a bit worried about giving birth already... My worst scare is tearing - maybe naively but I am hoping to be one of the lucky ones not to tear..
I've come accross the thing called perineal massage (with almond oil) and would appreciate a bit of advice from you- when is it a good time to start it (still while pregnant or when in labour?).
Also, it seems like a good midwife can go a world of good with her advice when to push and when not to! I have only met mine once and didn't like her at all, she seemed not to care much (she just ticked the boxes in my antenatal care plan, was burping while I had my appointment and barely managed a smile... am I being too harsh with my opinion about her?...) So I'm trying to educate myself as much as I can in case she will be there and be unhelpful.. How many of you happened to have a midwife that wasn't of much help and how you feel that affected you tearing or not?
Appreciate every response.
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Perineal Massage: when to start?
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TrippleBerryFairy · 09/05/2009 14:09
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