Hi everyone on Mumsnet!
I have read your notes in a breath and have felt both relieved and saddened at the same time seeing there are so many women out there who share my prob!
I am 40 and have 2 kids of 10 years & 2 years of age.
My prob is also a "protruding belly" which I call a "divine heritage" after the 2nd baby that came with an unplanned c-sec opposed to the natural birth I had had with the 1st baby...
I had had no prob going back into my usual slim self and flat-tummy after the 1st baby... but this one cmae with a high price in my mid section... I am sick of looking still pregnant almost 2 years after the delivery...
My tummy is not too bad in the mornings (I can pull it in and fit into my jeans okey..) but it gets bloated feeling as if I have swallowed a basketball and it gets and feels hard as soon as I eat something and will stay so afterwards all day long making me look 4-5 months pregnant... Once my tummy gets bloated, NO strength of pulling in will help... I just need to go around looking bloated and pregnant... This has been so ever since the c-section day... in fact, the few days following the birth, the nurses at the hospital thought may be another baby was still in there looking at my still-7-month-pregnant-looking stomach... It has gone down substantially since, but absolutely not down to where I can say "yes, I'm back"... Not even close...
NO, I am not back... I am still looking 5 months pregnant majority of the day... And I feel depressed and desparate... Especially since I have always been a very slim person who never knew what it means to restrict herself from wearing what she just likes without worrying about any part of her body to pop out...
The strange thing is that I do not have abdominal seperation (I have tested it several times... it is less than 2 fingers width) so what is the reason of my protruding bloated pot belly?
Could anyone answer whether my case could be "extremely weak stomach muscles" which means as soon as I eat someting, there is no strength in the abdominal wall to push the full stomach inwards causing a protruding stomach... ? Such extrememly weak stomach muscles perhaps mean I need to get them strengthened with very dedicated and very long-term specific exercise?
I have also read about bowel adhesion stories, IBS stories, etc. but not sure what...
I have been doing pilates (1-to-1) for the last 5-6 weeks but cannot see any improvement yet... I know I am doing the exercises correctly and I know which movements to avoid in order to focus only on the TAs for now...
Any ideas, suggestions, comments...?
Desparate Mom of 2...
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Desperate for Advise re Protruding "MAMA" Belly
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Gugubuyaha · 25/04/2009 20:18
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