hi,
daughter is now 11 months old, and i'd love to have another baby, but my pregnancy and birth of 1st altho prob not worse case ever was bad for me.
during pregnacy i suffered constant nose bleeds resulting in nose being cortorised, and now having to have surgey cos still having them, heart palpitations, vomiting....a lot from 8 til 22wks then again from 28weeks, allergic to wedding rings, had big blisters all over fingers, plus the usual heartburn, swollen feet, bleeding gums, spots, dizzy attacks, insomnia etc, i never had that 'glow'!
but the birth....48 hours long and that was acclerated after 30hrs, 3failed epidurals before a different dr came on duty, pethidine 100mg did nothing, gas an air did nothing, kept trying to send my husband home which was upsetting, he passed out while i had blood taken and had to go a&e for several hours which is when i became a ball of snot and tears! he was eventually allowed back once i had called my friend and she assumed responsibility for him.
but what concerns me is that upon til they took me to labour ward to accelarate me (cos only 2cm) the only pain relief i could have was tens machine (which was turned up to the max on every dial!) paracetamol and codiene, did nothing or a bath, that also had no benefit for me, and i was in the most horrendous pain ever!
eventually after 47hrs and them taking blood from baby's head three times, they whisked me to theatre consented me for c section, (just in case), manually turned her round cos she had gone wrong way, used vontouse and a lot of determined pushing, an episiostomy and i managed to avoid a c section, but oh my goodness, i'm still scared!
i did want to have two children close together, and i've had other people actually tell me that childbirth is not that painful if you relax into it!!!! are you joking???
i thought i had a high pain threshold til i had my baby!
baby didnt feed properly and i had visits from midwifes and breast feeding consultants daily, for five days, no one could get her to feed, but no-one would tell me to use a bottle either, nipples were in right mess in the end, looking back dont know why i didnt make the decision earlier but think you bit hormonal and emotional and kinda looking for guidance, when they left me on a fri night wih a screaming hungry baby with the words keep trying and we'll see you on monday.... was when husband took over and said no way and got the formula.
now due to abnormal postnatal smear i also have to have six monthly colposcopies and biopsies....ouch!
anyone else had bad experience and gone on to brave another?
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want another baby but pretty scared! (bit long)
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lilyrose123 · 17/04/2009 08:12
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