Im 32 wks on my 2nd child, ds1 has just turned 2. Was in labor for 4 days but kept in the foetal assessment due to high blood pressure & uterus being 2cm for 3 days...finally made it to 3cm and went to labor ward, had all pain relief and drip to speed up contractions. They tried breaking my waters but the waters were gone (as Id told them but hadnt listened theyd been leaking for weeks)and I was also leaking meconium for a few days. Eventually had emergency cs as my cervix would not move past 3cm.
Up until this week my 2nd baby has been transverse so although I was hoping for a natural birth (and to stay away frm the hosp as long as possible into the labor)I sort of resigned myself to having to have an elective. Thankfully the baby has now moved head down in time for my consultant appointment...but I was surprised that the consultant going through my notes is urging me for a c-section (based on my ds1's size 8'14 ...I am 5'4 and was only 8stone before conceiving him..and on my failure to progress despite the contractions being strong for so long)
Consultant is now sending me for scan at 33+5 to get an idea of the size of this baby. My uterus measures 34cm eventho only 32wks however I barely have a bump this time and definitely dont feel like this is another big baby. So...I suppose the scan will give me a better idea as to size of baby (dont understand why they never did growth scan on ds1 when he was always ahead of dates and uterus always measuring ahead &looked like I was gona pop with twins at 30wks)but will I have to mnake up my mind the following day when I see consultant or will they offer another scan later on!?
Now that babys head is down and I am carrying this baby so much easier than the last one (Possibly the weight Inever shed frm ds1)and so active with ds1...I feel like Id just be giving up to go for an elective... but if I deicide to try for a vbac that could be another horrific nightmare like my 1st birth. Does anyone have any advice or experience of this?If I try for vbac will they induce me early?Will I be monitored? Will I be left at the mercy of the midwives who wouldnt listen to me at all last time despite me being high risk due to health problems(ironically I dont have them anymore but am high risk due to cs)?Will I be left for almost 4 days again? If something goes wrong will I be stuck in the same position waiting for a surgeon to come & might not be as lucky this time!?!Last time I was had blood transfusions and ds1 had infection due to swallowing meconium.
I desperately want a vbac for the following reasons : do not want to be on the post natal ward again (as it was horrific last time and treatment ds and I received was disgraceful and dangerous)nor away from ds1 for long, last time it took 10 days for my milk to kick in (had to switch baby from bottles but managed in the end)...and I wont be able to pick up ds1 for sometime... but these things will be made doubly worse if I go through another long labor with an emergency C...and I might end up in there for over a week again.
Does anyone have an experience of an elective?My sister had one at 37wks due to breech baby and although it wasnt a walk in the park...it seemed a lot less terrifying than emergency C. I presumed I would be urged to try for a natural birth and am a little panicked now that I have to make the decision...dh wants me to opt for elective as both ds1 and I suffered a lot last time...but Im still clinging to the hope that things will be different this time. How do I know if ds1 being so big was the problem...or if its cervical dystocia?
HELP!
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32 weeks and confused about vbac or elective...when do I have to decide???
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suMadre · 26/03/2009 23:56
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