Hello
Had the midwife round today for my 36 week 'booking in for homebirth' appointment. She gave me some pretty good notes all about the HB and I signed the form etc. but she also mentioned that I needed a further adult to look after my daughter (2). When I said that there were about 3 people who didn't mind coming over in the middle of the night in case of transfer and a further 4 who would have her during the day when I wouldn't want her around for the labour she seemed satisfied, but I have been reading the notes again and it says that this additional adult should be actually present in the house during the labour (plus the birth partner / DH) to:
- look after other children (if applicable)
- answer phones and make phone calls
- go to the hospital to collect things
- help the midwife with all her kit.
I hadn't banked on having anyone else around to see me in the state of labour! And I don't know who I would ask to do such a thing (wasn't going to get a doula etc.).
Do you think the reality is more relaxed (like she was) than the notes? Or did she misunderstand me? Can anyone tell me who attended their births?
Thanks in advance
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