Hello ladies. I have been reading up on this site and all the advice seems so practical and helpful so I'm hoping you can help!!
I am 31 weeks pg with number 3 and have some concerns re the birth. After DD #1 was born-(1998) assisted vaginal, I had a HUGE haematoma down below (externally) and was in great discomfort. Same after DD #2(2002). In 2006 I had surgery for an odd 'lump' in my outer labia (sorry ladies - too much detail!) Anyway, in recovery something went wrong inside and i ended up in a HORRIFIC state, i was bleeding internally and had to be taken straight back to theatre for another op to repair. They found the cause was an AVM (basically I was born with an arterial vein "down there") and it had ruptured post surgery! Also explains the previous haematomas post birth with DD's.
Anyhow......! I have been in an enourmous degree of pain recently with the AVM swelling again (no doubt the weight of babba!) and it has become impossible to make love or even hit the shops as I am on the verge of tears(!) I showed my MW who instantly suggested a c-section & referred me back to my Consultant. I saw someone different instead (hospital short staffed!)who firstly, did not know what I'd had (kept saying a cyst!!!!) and then said they will not perform a c section for this reason!!! I explained that I was in hospital spaced out on morphine etc for 10 days after the AVM & I will have a baby & 2 olders to care for -and she was insistant that it would be ok! I also ought to mention that my ORIGINAL consultant refused me a Home Birth PURELY based upon my history with the AVM! So, my question is.....can I insist on a c section for med reasons (I think I have good reason) and if its going to be 'ok' as she said, why have I been refused my homebirth???
Sorry to go on ladies, but I see my MW again tomorrow and I feel kinda frustrated at the dismissive and contradictory manner of the hospital and would love some practical advice! The prospect of the AVM terrifies me more than the CS! Many thanks - and Happy New Year!!
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PLEASE help ladies!! (longish post - sorry!)
clouiseg · 06/01/2009 18:40
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