I am only 25+3 at the moment so it's a long way off yet, but I'm seeing my MW next week for the first time on my own (i.e. without DS1 there, so I can cry sob talk openly about my fears) Reasons are as follows:
- DS2's labour was 2 hours long from waters breaking, to him being born, I'm expecting this one to be even quicker.
- DH can be anywhere up to 4 or 5 hours away with work, and he is out at least 12 hours on a week day, plus Saturday mornings and is also on call on certain weekends.
- I have absolutely no emergency childcare for DS1 and 2, (6yo and 2yo, or will be 2yo by then) the only person who could have the boys for us is my MIL who has already said she wouldn't have them unless I was booked in for an induction, so she has 'time to prepare' ( separate issues here obviously). She is also at the very least 40 minutes drive away, so even if she would agree to come at the drop of a hat, she may well be too late anyway.
- I have an Irritable Uterus, which is the reason I'd ask to be delivered at 38 weeks rather than 40, it seems I'll be doing well to stay pregnant till 38 weeks anyway, and TBH, the way the contractions are coming now, I don't even want to think about being left to go to 42 weeks, to point out the obvious but often looked over point, from 38-42 weeks is another month of little or no sleep, and very strong, painful, regular contractions, day and night.
Aside from the IU problem, I am absolutely terrified (already!) of going into labour with my boys here, (or worse, DS1 at school with no one around to pick him up) DH being miles and miles away, having a super quick labour, with no chance of anyone getting here, either for me, or my DS's.
The problem is I am a very loud labourer, and once I get to about 6cm (which took about 20 minutes last time, 20 minutes of not too bad niggles and then all hell let lose), I am just in a world of my own and anything could be going on around me and I wouldn't know or care about it. I have visions of DS2 burning the house down and DS1 sat in the corner holding his ears to block out my noise, they would both be absolutely petrified to see me in full throws of labour, and once I start I can't stop it, I can't physically move, I wouldn't be able to get to the phone or anything.
Of course because I have spent all this time worrying about it, it will go nothing like this, and DH will be here with MIL on her way, and all will be fine, but to keep my mind sane in the mean time, does anyone know what the chances of the MW/consultant agreeing to book me in for an induction are? (I have been induced twice, so know all the risks and downsides).
TIA