I am 30 weeks pg and will have to decide in 6 weeks whether to attempt a VBAC or have an elective c-section.
I am really struggling to make my mind up but am definitely veering towards an elective cs - but the main reasons for this are practical reasons, such as it would make childcare for DS so much easier if we have a planned date (we don't really have any local family who would be suitable to call on at really short notice). Also, DH works away a lot so if we have a planned date, he can inform his boss and ensure he is not going to be down the other end of the country, or even worse, out of the country.
I did suffer with my first birth - was in labour for 24 hours and DS was 'back to back' so the pain in my back was excruciating so I am also a little scared (even though the sensible part of me knows that is unlikely to be the case again).
I also realise that the practicalities after a cs of having to stay in hospital not being able to pick DS up, drive etc also need to factor.
I am confused - any help would be greatly appreciated?
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VBAC vs elective cs - how much such practical issues influence your choice?
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ceebee74 · 19/09/2008 13:31
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