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HappyNewMum2Be Sun 17-Aug-08 19:21:17

I normally have a wax or trim, but since becoming larger, haven't bothered, and then physically couldn't reach. I'm not particularly hairy, but thought about having a trim, but since read lots of posts where people mention being shaved in the hospital. Is this a necessity?

What do you guys all recommend?

Thanks in advance

emmac3616 Tue 03-May-16 07:59:14

arandomname maybe you should adopt the "each to their own" view of the world and let people have their own opinions... rather than criticising them!

Do you do your hair and make up before you leave the house? I do, religiously, but I;'m not suggesting you have to too!

arandomname Tue 03-May-16 07:06:31

"I couldn't bear to think of them looking at it all au naturel."

This is a really odd attitude, you know that?

I know it's a pretty common attitude, but honestly many women never shave, me included.

They are going to see you give birth! It's not exactly glamorous a few hairs are neither here nor there.

If you want to shave go for it, but who made you embarrassed of your own hair? It's ridiculous.

You know the current fashion for no hair comes from porn, right?

bloodymaria Tue 03-May-16 07:00:46

Zombie thread.

OP's baby will be turning 8 this year.

DumpedForAGymnast Tue 03-May-16 06:56:39

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TwllBach Mon 02-May-16 18:48:42

I veeted a week or so ago but now I'm nearly a week over due it's growing back again and I really can't be arsed doing it again sad

SwallowsInSpring Mon 02-May-16 18:41:19

Ooh, Veet is a good idea. But then regrowth... I don't know. 23 weeks pregnant now and have been pondering it. I had stitches last time and they weren't exactly perfectly placed. Which caused some problems afterwards. So I'm thinking, surely it's better to give the midwife a fighting chance of good needle placement by not having hairs blocking the view. I mean, if someone (as in a doctor) was about to start removing a suspicious mole of your arm or a hairy man's back and then stitch it up, I'm pretty sure the first thing they'd do is shave the area. Clean it up, better view etc.

emmac3616 Mon 02-May-16 17:34:03

i used veet - i couldn't bear to think of them looking at it all au naturel... (i know you dont need to, they wont care, but i wanted to retain some self respect - had a mani / pedi and shaved legs etc as well) plus after both deliveries i didn't want to look down there for a few weeks after so getting it all in good order beforehand was a help!!

BettyRCollins Fri 29-Apr-16 16:14:52

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cashmere Wed 14-Nov-12 23:59:53

I'm going for a very short trim with beard trimmer (thanks DH!)Think will make stitches easier but want a but of camaflagoue so I don't spot any stitched bits afterwards.

I've had regular waxes, brazilians and hollywoods in the past but don't want to risk ingrowing hairs/tiny infected pores. That's why I'm not doing a close shave either.

Any midwives out there with an opinion?

KatAndKit Wed 14-Nov-12 21:21:58

I just left it pretty much alone, as I normally do. I used a pair of scissors to reduce the length a bit to make it less messy with the blood loss, but having a fairly normal amount of hair did not make the lochia a nightmare - if you wash down there very frequently it has less chance to get matted in your hair.

VisualiseAHorse Tue 13-Nov-12 23:06:56

I think they used to shave in the 80's.

I went in proper 70's style.

BooBumpDaddyandMe Tue 13-Nov-12 20:22:43

As i did for the birth of my first ds I've attacked my lady garden with the trimmers as I didn't want to be caught short with a 70's porn star look going on for my impending labour. It was a bit of a contortion act but it doesn't seem like i did too bad a job and def an improvement!!
DH has painted my toe nails!
I didn't really care last time & don't suppose I will this but it takes away any need for any anxiety, just in case!

tipp2chicago Tue 13-Nov-12 19:32:14

I had a Brazilian at 39 weeks because I didn't want to deal with lochia and pubic hair. Well worth it IMO.

PurpleGentian Tue 13-Nov-12 19:24:40

I just left it all alone. It wasn't a problem at all.

whatsoever Tue 13-Nov-12 19:17:54

I had a Hollywood wax pre-due date as I didn't want matted pubes with all the lochia post-birth. However as DS was 10 days late I wasn't quite smooth as a baby's bum by the birth but still a bit easier to deal with than au naturel.

However with an episiotomy with stitches that got infected, thrush from the antibiotics for the infection and piles, no more hot wax will be going near my nether regions for rather a long time!

Pipsqueak1 Mon 12-Nov-12 21:53:41

Reading this has made me laugh! :-D
I am tempted to go for the full brazillian as close to birth date as poss! I do shave regularly but had stitches with my last birth.
So if I have stitches again, it won't itch with the hair growing back in aswell as being sore a stitchy!! :-O It drove me insane because I couldn't scratch and couldn't shave!

Forensica Fri 22-Aug-08 15:45:27

When I was practising at labour ward as a trainee paramedic (years ago) we had to shave women who haven't done it down around labia and bum. This had a practical reason since if the woman needed stitches, it was easier to saw things together. I reckon the hair in the way could in-grow into the wound and cause an infection. I am surprised that it is not done in this country, but I am surely going to shave myself there (hubby will have to do it for me I guess) before the birth in January. Seems more practical and cleaner.

MrsTittleMouse Fri 22-Aug-08 13:51:54

I was told that they'd had toe nail polish marking the birthing pool too, which was a bit of nightmare to get off. I suppose that for hygiene reasons the pool has to be and look completely immaculate (I certainly want it to be!).

jura Fri 22-Aug-08 13:45:28

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Aitch Fri 22-Aug-08 13:31:48

i've read that the thing about nailpolish is that your toes and fingers changing colour can be a sign that things are going awry during a general anaesthetic etc, so it's best not to.

HappyNewMum2Be Fri 22-Aug-08 13:28:03

thanks for the comments. I think a trim is in order - definately not the brazillian!

the things you thought you would never have to think about.....


Nezzi Fri 22-Aug-08 13:11:59

I asked my friends about this as they all have children, they all had a good trim before hand just because it's easier to stay clean afterwards what with all the blood etc.
I had my usual "high bikini" wax but the beautician got a bit carried away and gave me a Brazilian shock The next day I had to go out in a skirt and no knickers to let the air get to my bits LOL! I was paranoid all day that the wind was going to blow my skirt up and I'd be forever embarrassed!!

MrsTittleMouse Fri 22-Aug-08 10:42:19

I wasn't allowed nail polish in the last birthing centre that I used (I went in the pool) and I've been told that the same rules apply for the birthing centre I'll (hopefully) use this time.

I had a bikini wax partly because I knew that my chances of natural labour weren't that good (family history, big baby, bad position). So even though I wanted a natural birth, I had the top inch waxed off to avoid the dry Bic if I did have a CS. It wasn't for the edification of the midwife. grin I would love to have a Brazilian wax, just to avoid 6 weeks of cleaning clotted blood out of the hair twice a day (sorry blush), but I'm not brave enough. Hopefully I won't bleed for so long this time around.

inni Fri 22-Aug-08 09:35:22

better shave completely at home cos in hospital they do it just with water and is a bit sore. You can help yourself with a mirror. But just do it when you are really sure that the labor has started

helips Mon 18-Aug-08 09:53:09

I just did a quick trim and still got shaved when I needed a cs!! Wasn't too bad though, think I was out of it by then so didn't really care!

I had a pedicure before the birth and was intending a home water birth, no mention of not being allowed nail polish.

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