Please can i have your opinions on this issue.
Went into labour with dd1 at 42 weeks. Went through 9 hours of pushing and she just wouldn't come down the birth canal (possibly in wrong postion).
No one has ever really been able to tell me if it was the way my birth canal is formed or weather dd1 was in the wrong position.
So, had emergency c-sec and that all went well without any complications. Recovery was pretty good.
I am now 36 weeks gone.
3 years on I've been told there seems to be no reason why not to try for natural birth again, but I feel i would like to go elective for the following reasons..
- I can plan for the event and babysitters for dd1
- would hate to go through 1-2 days of labour then all that pushing again to then end up with c-sec again!
3)The idea of the pain AFTER Vag birth scares me more this time especially as i know this can be avoided this time!
- I am suffering lots with pelvic and groin pains and can't bare it anymore!
My DH and MIL (!) both think i should try natural again.
DH reasoning is that we have an active 3 year old this time and therefore recovery will be harder this time i.e need to recover quicker for driving round etc.. Can see his point of view!
Please can i hear some other opinions xxxx