This is my second dc and dds birth nearly 4 years ago was highly medicalised. SHe was over due, so I was induced and had to have an epidural and was not able to move around even before that as I was strappd to a monitor. I didn't like that I was left alone for huge stretches of time, and when she was born the midwife was the other side of the room, so she shot out in one push and I tore quite badly. I recently had to stay overnight for monitoring in our maternity unit and didn't see a single member of staff, to the extent that I was not able to find someone to discharge me so I just left . Now that the birth is getting closer, it has occured to me that I could avoid all this and ask for a homebirth. My fear is too much intervention agin and not being able to move around in hospital, not to mention the obvious shortage of midwives. When I was in hospital recently there were women on the ward who were obviously frightened and in pain after being induced who couldn't find anyone to help them I don't plan to stay in hospital long (if everything goes well at least) as I would far rather be at home with my dd and I found the maternity wards too bright and noisy to actually be able to get any rest. But the wimp in me is petrified that things could go wrong at home, or I wouldn't cope well and need another epidural. Is it still possible to request a homebirth at 30 weeks? And is it really a practical suggestion when I live in a first floor flat?!
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30 weeks and considering asking for a homebirth - advice please!
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littlelamb · 23/03/2008 21:22
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