Hello
I'm only 24 weeks but due to an extensive DVT my pretty normal pregnancy has been turned around into something very medical and scary.
I had really wanted a homebirth (this is my first and only baby) mainly due to hospital / needle related anxiety but also as this will be my only attempt at labour & birth as have agreed with DH that this will be only baby.
Now because of risks, I've been warned that a c-sec under general anaesthetic is, while not guaranteed, a real possibility.
Obviously I don't want to do anything to risk myself or baby so will basically do what I'm told but the thought of completely missing out on my only opportunity to experience labour and birth is absolutely FREAKING me out. I just can't get to grips with being pregnant and then waking up after major op to find myself a mother and missing the whole process. They've said that DH won't be able to attend C-Sec under general and they think that epidural is too risky because of risk of bleeding on spine (because of anticoagulant medication I"m on).
I've been told that there is a chance that I could have a relatively normal delivery if all goes well but I've been red flagged and even if it does start naturally will be whipped in at the slightest whisper of labour to be poked and prodded and watched like a hawk.
I appreciated that everyone has a different view of ways of giving birth but I'd really appreciated some positive c-sec experiences, particularly if done under GA. I'm really concerned about how I'll be left feeling post natally
My DH has been amazing throughout all of this but he doesn't quite understand my distress at what could be my worst possible birth scenario.
many thanks
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REALLY wanted Homebirth but C -Sec under general anaesthetic is distinct possibility. Really spinning me out, any advice / experice?
scruffymomma · 03/12/2007 14:27
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