Problems after birth with relationship

[Tink191087]

Hi everyone, this is the first post I’ve ever done so sorry if it’s not quite right. I am a mum to 6 beautiful boys and a gorgeous baby girl. I had her 8 months ago. Since I’ve had her my partner complains that my vagina is loose and can make me feel ashamed which has put a lot of pressure on our relationship! Has anyone else had this and what can I do to sort it without surgery. Thanks

[premiumKale]

I’d tell him I was concerned maybe his penis had actually shrunk to match his compassion and respect for the woman who has given birth to his child

[ImaSababa]

You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Your body has produced seven amazing children. If your partner doesn't understand that, he doesn't deserve you.

Some men are absolute douchebags.

[Tink191087]

Thankyou both so much I just find that I’m constantly hating my body! I’ve tried googling all sorts of things but it all boils back down to money.

[Sunnydaysstillhere]

I have had more dc than you op and my dh assures me it is more than acceptable down there..
Maybe you need a new man not a new fanjo...