Hi,
Just had hubby tell me he's not sure he wants to be in the delivery room to see his daughter be born.
He didn't go into too much detail, to be honest the revelation was a little upsetting so I didn't want to spend time getting really upset.
Is this normal? I read lots of men just do it because it's expected not because they want to.
What I'm really wondering, is should I find another birth partner if he really doesn't want to be there? I'm now thinking I'll have it my head that he doesn't want to be there, and its going to cause me anxiety, which is probably the last thing I'm going to need when in labour.
Feeling pretty sad about it, any honest comments and advice welcome x
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Hubby doesn't want to be in delivery room
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auslass · 24/12/2019 12:59
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