when i had my son, 14 mths ago, the birth etc was okay, but i was really unprepared for what happened next.
They whisked him away to SCBU on the next floor. I had been briefly told he'd probably have to go there for a few hours to check his blood sugars, so wasn't a total surprise, what was so upsetting was that it felt like they kidnapped him.
They kept him up there for 3 days. He was in a heated cot for first 6 hours, and when i asked they said that his blood sugars were fine.
Their reason for keeping him was they kept telling me he was a sicky baby and a poor feeder.
I wasn't encouraged to visit / feed him ( bottle fed ) and felt like i was in their way when i did go up.
I was only when they got a set of twins and a poorly baby in that they then started demanding i go feed him, to the point of sending midwife in to wake me in middle of the night to go upstairs.
he was taking a couple of ounces every couple fo hours, but they said he needed to take 4 oz 4 hrly. They had inserted a nasal tube and when he stopped sucking they 'injected' the rest of his feed....which he would promptly throw back.
They also timed when i fed him and after 20mins they would take him off me and 'inject' the remainder of his feed.
He was moved 3 times in the time he was in there, ending up in a small room where they stored spare cots at the end of a corridor opposite a broom closet.
I ended up so depressed and upset that when i went to give him his feed during the night i stayed there for 5 hours waiting to catch the consultant on his rounds, he couldnt understand why my son was still there and said babies arent robots and will feed when theyre hungry.
were currently trying for another baby, and the pregnancy / labour arent a worry to me, its the after care. Was this normal? Have I / am I over reacting?
Is there anyway i can stop this happening again?
Sorry for rambling, thankyou to anyone who reads this.
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Calling All Diabetics. or anyone Need To compare notes for post-birth care plz.
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1down2togo · 14/08/2007 16:30
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