So long story short, I gave birth on Sunday morning to a beautiful baby girl.
Birth didn't quite go to plan and both of our lives were in danger. I lost a lot of blood and had to endure most of the textbook 'traumatic birth' stuff - episiotomy, forceps, blood transfusion etc.
Since the birth, I've obviously been monitored closely but I feel like literally every five minutes, someone is asking me if I'm feeling sad or stressed or overwhelmed and I've been referred for PTSD counselling.
But the thing is.... I'm fine. I remember 90% of what happened and I'm pretty fine with it. I'm quite a focussed and practical person and I tend to be good in an emergency situation. DH seems a lot more affected by the experience than me.
Has anyone else been through this and just been fine or should I expect it to hit me unexpectedly in a few days? At the moment I can't really picture feeling anything other than just relief that she is here and is okay.
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Should I be feeling traumatised?
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cloudymelonade · 17/04/2019 02:19
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