Hi
Im pregnant with my second child and now at 20 weeks and beginning to become nervous about my appointments, most notably my one to confirm the elective C-Section
Bit of history to explain
So i suffer from Endometreosis and have had 2 surgeries on this. During my last surgery there was a lot of damage that needed repairing and i was informed i would struggle to conceive and should i manage, that a virginal birth is dangerous. I cant remember the full reason, they gave me the debrief when i was coming around from General anaesthetic, but it was something to do with scar tissue, damage to tubes and risk of hysterectomy.
10 year ago i had my first child. During my appointments with the midwife i informed them of my medical history and at first all was fine. At 24 weeks they suddenly declined my elective C-section stating they could not find the records of my previous surgeries. I have scars from these operations, they most definitely took place, but they kept saying without record it didnt. I gave them all my information, i called the hospital that did the surgery, my old doctors etc to find the records and finally they found proof that the both ops took place but only the records of the first ones outcomes. They still refused the C-section stating they had no proof the second op was a risk. My mum attended appointments, she was witness to what the doctors had told me and also stated they were clear NO virginal birth.
I was fighting with them up until 1 week prior to the due date, when they finally acknowledged that without the second op records they could not really make an informed assessment of the risk and i had an c-section the next day.
I was terrified all they way up until that day fighting to get what i was told was medically needed by the doctor who did the operations on me.
Im now pregnant again and we are at the point of needing to agree on the elective C-section. I am aware my records of the second op are STILL missing but it is at least showing as having taken place.
I worried that once again i will be faced with a fight in order to get what has been stated as medically required but with the details of why lost.
Anyone got any advice on how to get this done without a fight? This pregnancy has been hard and stressful as it is, due to being on high alert from other risks (all now clear)
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How hard is requesting an elective C-section
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Kaiya · 24/01/2019 11:11
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