After having a debrief today i have had a lot of questions answered about DD’s arrival 8months ago but it has raised a worry in my head that the midwife couldnt really answer.
DD was a precipitate (?) birth less than 3hrs from waters breaking to delivery at 36weeks. Now i am worried that it will be even faster and possibly sooner next time?!
she also emphasised packing the bags earlier, tell the hospital as soon as you call how fast and early this one was, don’t chance driving ourselves if my contractions start before we are in the car, call an ambulance instead, dont worry about childcare they can accommodate in this circumstance.
In all honesty i feel like today has been the first acknowledgement (and for me realisation!) that i suffered a trauma my brain has been protecting me from and thats why I don’t remember anything after arriving at the hospital. I even found out that because it was so fast my uterus didnt get a rest between contractions and was exhausted so didnt pass the membranes properly afterwards and this probably caused the womb infection a&e discovered 9days later. It could be why i felt i struggled to connect with her and to breastfeed who knows?
My hv clearly knew before me that i had mentally struggled with this birth and what happened and that i needed a debrief and i am so glad she told me to get one but this one thing is already playing on my mind!
I havent even started to process the last birth and am starting to worry about the next one which isnt even on the cards yet😕
I guess i just want to know how your second labours compared to your first length-wise?
I’m Hoping i can shut this nagging feeling up before it gets worse!
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Second labour speeds, need to know!
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MrsTmilknosugar · 19/01/2019 00:09
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