Birthing experiences with prolapse and incontinence

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Hi I must say sorry if there's too much information going on in what I write..

I suffer with joint hypermobility and when having flare ups chronic pain and fatigue.
Anyway my real sticking point is I suffer with a prolapse of vaginal walls and uterus and also incontinence which is getting much worse (threw up and fully wet myself the other day). I'm only 26 so really worried that my prolapse is getting worse through pregnancy will be extreme by the time baby number 2 is here

I am so stuck between having a vaginal birth and a c section I don't know which is the lesser of two evils as my prolapse needs surgery on once I've recovered

Anybody that can speak from experience I'm definitely listening