Hi everyone!
I was hoping to hear some of your experiences of giving birth after a third or fourth degree tear.
After my first baby 19 months ago, the consultant advised I would be offered an elective c-section as an option for further deliveries due to suffering a 3b tear. I am now pregnant again and am going backwards and forwards in my head about the best way to deliver this baby. With my son, I didn't get the urge to push and now have these thoughts that I wasn't pushing hard enough and it was me that caused the need for the episiotomy and forceps delivery because I wasn't pushing effectively. Which is probably another issue entirely!
I have no long lasting symptoms from the tear, besides a little urgency but it's certainly manageable, though I am worried that another tear will result in it becoming worse or unmanageable. I definitely don't want to be 35 and incontinent! But I also don't take the c-section lightly either. Both have their risks, plenty of pros and cons for both and I just can't make a decision.
For those of you who were faced with this decision, what did you choose and how did it turn out?
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Birth after 3rd Degree Tear
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SunshineSnowflakesDaydreams · 30/08/2018 08:46
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