Hi everyone! I am in a bit of a pickle here and would love to get your advice. I have a 1 year old DD who doesn't go to nursery yet, and I will be looking after her full time while on maternity leave from November. My DH works 2 hours commute away, both our parents live abroad and can't come around to stay with us around the due date. I can't seem to figure out what is the best way for me to handle labour:
- If I am alone at home when labour starts I can't take my LO with me to the hospital and God know when my DH will be able to get home.
- I could ask friends to be on stand-by but this option doesn't work if labour starts on a week day during working hours.
- The idea of hiring an emergency nanny and leaving my LO with her all alone at home absolutely terrifies me.
- Having DH look after our LO, while giving birth at the hospital all alone also terrifies me.
I've had a straightforward VD with DD (aside from episiotomy and epidural), and hoping for an easy one this time. Home birth seems like the only options but the idea of not having a pain relief and risks of not being near the doctors makes me nervous.
Anyone in a similar situation? Successful home birth stories?