just one more(4 Posts)
mummabear1989 Sat 14-Jul-18 08:53:32
Wellthisunexpected Sun 15-Jul-18 09:13:14
TokyoSushi Sun 15-Jul-18 09:25:31
babynelly2010 Sun 15-Jul-18 21:45:55
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heya im a 29year old mum and have a boy and girl yet im craving one more baby...i always wanted 3 kids so im thinking i should just go for it 😌😌😌 i dunno
Can you afford another? Do you have a big enough house and car or finances to organise that? Do your current children have everything they need, including enough time with their parents? Could you commit to the same if you had a third? What about affording to put them through uni?
If you can do the above then there is no reason not to have another however if the above is going to be difficult I think you owe it to your existing children to stop at 2.
If you have space and can afford it, go for it!
If the happiness/ wuality of life of your current two children will be improved or not deteriorated then why not.
My unplanned dc3 made our lives well better than before. She completed us, made us better, closer as a family and overall happier. We laugh a lot more, we have group hugs and we cry sometimes too but never alone. Yes we do travel as a herd really and occasionally we look like a shitt show or should I say a storm but who cares. My 3 dcs are true blessing :-)
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