So I gave birth to DC1 almost 3 weeks ago All went fine, text book labour and delivery, but unfortunately I had a third degree tear which needed to be stitched up in theatre afterwards.
I’ve followed Doctors orders since then - lactulose/lots of water/pelvic floor exercises/letting air get to the stitches/keeping meticulously clean etc but I do still have a few questions! If anyone who has been through the same could answer them I would really appreciate it (I know it’s very personal!)
1. How long did it take for your stitches to dissolve?
I feel like mine may have, although I do still get itchy at various times day and night (I’m wondering whether the maternity pads are contributing to this though, I’m the same with sanitary towels).
2. When were you able to have sex again?
A fortnight ago I never had any intention of letting DH near me again I’m now starting to feel like my libido is making a slow return, however I don’t want to cause any damage if I’m not fully healed yet (also waiting to start contraception again)
3. Is there any way of knowing whether my pelvic floor exercises are making a difference?
Would I be able to tell myself? Will it help if I insert a finger while doing them? Sorry I know that’s TMI, just want to make sure that what I’m doing is working.
Thanks in advance for anyone who can shed any more info on these! I’m just desperate to know whether there’s still life in me after the joys of childbirth
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Life after a third degree tear...
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HelloDC1 · 14/05/2018 10:19
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